I recently found out my wife had a sugar daddy for years before I met her. It started when she was in college, he paid for her apartment and bought her a car and a lot of other things. And I know what she did in return. I was aware she was not a virgin before I met her and had other lovers but this is different.
I found out through the husband of mutual friends. His wife has known my wife for a long time and told him all about it. The man was in his 60’s and very rich, he was also married with children some my wife’s age at the time. I also understand that sometimes other young friends of my wife would join them for sex parties.
I didn’t believe it at first and nothing prepared me for this. She never acted like she was like this and we didn’t even have sex for six months after we started dating. Three of those months she was still living in the apartment he provided for her and I assume she was also providing for him during that time.
I had to know more about him so I did some research, he is very wealthy and very well connected. To me since she was only 18 when this started I considered her more of a victim and decided to expose him. I was able to get his wife’s email as she is also a public figure and I sent her everything I knew including my wife’s maiden name, the address of the apartment he rented for her and some other details.
I didn’t tell my wife I knew about him or that I contacted his wife with the story. She came home afterwards one day and she looked terrified. She pulled me aside and gave me the whole story and said somehow it had gotten out and that guy blamed her and said he was going to contact me and ruin our marriage like she had ruined his.
If she finds out I did what I did she will probably leave me.
So what.