Hello, I was on a business trip recently and met this girl. We ended up spending the evening together and spent the night in my hotel room. I have been with my wife for 20+ years. I love her very much. I kept on thinking about my wife while with this girl and didn’t have sex with her. But we did lot of other stuff. Now I feel very guilty to have done such a thing. I was not in the right frame of mind. I am having severe anxiety issues and worry that I have ruined my relationship. I never intend to do such a thing again. I want to enjoy my love life with my wife for ever.
Try and think of it as a lesson learned. Doesn’t matter if you actually fucked her you still cheated. Move on and keep it to yourself. My wife cheated on a trip and came home and told me all about it. We worked it out but I wish she would have just kept it to herself. Every once in a while I have a dream of coming home and catching her in bed with a man and sometimes when she comes home late I wonder if she had been with someone. I forgave her but that doesn’t mean I can ever forget what she did. I also think different of her when we make love. We married young and she told me she was a virgin before me now I don’t know.
It’s just sex, stop feeling guilty. Chances are your wife has already cheated on you. My wife cheated on me and at the time I was hurt, now I’d love to experience a threesome with her and another man.
I have done this several times. Never tell your wife about it.
Leave your wife and get together with the conference girl. You only live once!
Leave it where it was, especially if you dont intend to do it again. I fully understand your anxiety. Its a sign of your good heart. We all make mistakes. You arent the first, you certainly wont be the last to want something outside your marriage. Dont ruin a great marriage over guilt. She doesnt deserve that, neither do you. I promise in time your anxiety will subside. Take it from another guy who has been there!.
Say absolutely nothing to anyone. Definitely do not confess this to your wife if you want things to work between the two of you.
Don’t be a bitch man up
May Karma have mercy on you. You just ruined your relationship and only the truth will set you free. Let her divorce you and take everything. You owe her that much.
Don’t worry about it. Let it go. If you didn’t go all the way it is no problem.
Forgive yourself and let it go. And DO NOT TELL YOUR WIFE. Do not burden her with it; carry the burden yourself. It happened. It’s in the past. There are no consequences. It’s happened to countless people. Let it go now.