My 20 year younger wife wanted divorce after 10 years. We are now divorced over a year and she still haven’t movied out. She doesn’t make enough money at her entry level job to move out even with subsidized housing and we have a lot of credit card debt that Im paying. She would spend money like crazy when we were married because I never gave her a budget. I pay all the bills, clean the house, drop kids off at school and pick them up day care. It’s like we are still marriage without the sex.We get along and both enjoy each other company when she is here. She goes out regularly while I stay home with the kids. She has a on and off abusive boyfriend.
I do want her to move out so I can move on, but I know she won’t make it. She does manage money good and doesn’t have a sense of how much stuff cost.
On top of this she has severe depression and we had two near death suicide attempts since we have been divorced. She won’t get professional help.
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