I’m still super confused on how this even happened, but around the time where I was conceived my mother had many business trips to the USA through her work, I believe South Brooklyn and Boston. Five months ago (roughly) I took a DNA test for fun, I wanted to see my exact DNA make up, it said I was around half African. (African-American) To preface this, my mother and who I thought who was my father are both white, I look completely white. (very pale skin, only slightly wavey hair) Through my mother I found out that she had a hookup with a black man during one of her trips. Her plan, apparently her plan was that when I was born if I looked anything like my real father, she would tell her husband, I did not, so she kept quiet.
Her and my father (her and her husband) have divorced. I feel like I should reach out to my biological father, I’ve stopped talking to my mother, I still talk to my ‘father’ I really only want to visit my bio father as an excuse to leave my country for a short while for the USA as a break from everything.
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