Me and my ex friend got into a fight. Was talking about it to my friends and one of them made a comment after messing up their pronouns with “F*** they didn’t respect you why should you respect them?” And that put me in a mindset where I thought it was okay to misgender them while talking about the situation to one of my other friends. That was the biggest mistake ever, Ik how it feels to be misgendered and definitely on purpose so I don’t understand how could do such a thing when others do it to me. My only thing I can say is that I was angry but that doesn’t give me an excuse. I am a bad person for this. This moment has made me have so much regret. I’m actually a bad person. No matter how much I tell myself to not think about it and that thinking and worrying about it isn’t gonna change the past it always comes back to haunt me. All I can do is move on and not make that mistake ever again. That was the only time I did something like that. I didn’t say it to the person’s face, I knew it was immediately wrong after and I was just mad but it doesn’t matter. That’s f***** up. I am f***** up. I have learned that no matter what a person does to you that doesn’t give you the right to misgender them. NEVER.
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