I am married, long time. I only had one sexual encounter prior to meeting my wife. We had sex before marriage, lots. For 30 plus years we were monogamous. Then, I was curious, what are other women like. So I made some profiles on various dating sites and met quite a few women. I have enjoyed every one of them and I have found that I love meeting new women for an affair. I have had lots of one night stands and quite a few girls that I see on an irregular basis. I love the variety.
This isn’t right. You’re being selfish. You are a grown man, act like one! Think about your wife for a second, how do you think this would affect her? you made a vow to love and cherish her, don’t throw away your marriage for temporary fun. Be there for your wife and no other women!
OP – I am there for my wife. I don’t plan on throwing her away at all. I just love variety.
I travel a lot and have met up with one particular girl in a town I spend the night at a few times a year. Every time I spend the night there I invite her to spend the night with me. She is so much fun. My wife does not enjoy sex any more.
What am I to do, have no sex?