I dated this guy for 9 years. When we first got together, his son was 8. The more I was around his son, the more he treated me like a mom. He’s called me mom many times. He knows his real mom, but shes rarely been around. He’s now 22, and I can’t stop wanting him romantically, in a sexual way. I hate how I feel, especially since he still calls me mom, but I can’t stop fantasizing about him.
It’s normal. When I was 8 my dad remarried and he married someone 13 years younger then him. She was so attractive and beautiful and I of course had a huge crush on her. My dad developed a back problem which impacted their intimacy and by 15 my relationship with my step mom grew into back rubs, flirting and much more.
I know where your coming from. Accept these feelings and consider reaching out to him. Can we email? I would like to share more. One2knowinkc1 (at) gmail. Hope you write.
We all get feelings like this from time to time.
Use them as fantasies by all means but not in reality. That way lays nothing but heartache