My wife just told me she has been having an affair with a guy she works with and it has been going on for a year. At first I didn’t believe her then it sunk in, I just sat down too shocked to say anything. We sat there for a long time and she finally said she needed to tell me because his wife found out about it.
I thought everything was good, we got along and hardly ever fought and we have a very active sex life much more than I thought was normal for a couple that has been married for ten years. All I could say was why, what was missing in our lives? I mean what do you say to this? Her answer was she didn’t know, it just happened one day when they worked late and stopped to have a drink together like they had done several times before.
I told her I wanted to know everything the how when where of it all. She said it didn’t matter it was over. I guess I blew up then and said of course it fucking matters what does he do for you I don’t? She just started crying and I grabbed my keys and took off. Two nights in a hotel later thinking about them fucking, more imagining since she didn’t fill me in on details.
Am I wrong in wanting to know everything?
Not at all.
You deserve to know everything
For what reason?
Are you staying with your wife or not?
If so, whatever she says, you will go over it again , and again, and again in your mind, or as a weapon to argue with her.
In not, you will use it again and again to castigate yourself for not being enough.
If you want To stay with your wife,, and get counselling, you could let the counsellor dig through it (without you present) and at a later time understand what you could do better.
You deserve to feel how he makes her feel, that’s what happened with me…. wife stayed at our plugs house after we fought… they spit roasted her. For hours. They filmed it cuz she was high and couldn’t say no. I found a black guy to explore my own fantasies. Her and I are broke up but we both love bbc . I hope your wife has a bull and gives her pussy