My wife just told me she has been having an affair with a guy she works with and it has been going on for a year. At first I didn’t believe her then it sunk in, I just sat down too shocked to say anything. We sat there for a long time and she finally said she needed to tell me because his wife found out about it.
I thought everything was good, we got along and hardly ever fought and we have a very active sex life much more than I thought was normal for a couple that has been married for ten years. All I could say was why, what was missing in our lives? I mean what do you say to this? Her answer was she didn’t know, it just happened one day when they worked late and stopped to have a drink together like they had done several times before.
I told her I wanted to know everything the how when where of it all. She said it didn’t matter it was over. I guess I blew up then and said of course it fucking matters what does he do for you I don’t? She just started crying and I grabbed my keys and took off. Two nights in a hotel later thinking about them fucking, more imagining since she didn’t fill me in on details.
Am I wrong in wanting to know everything?
Not at all.