Well first off I must apologize to the person reading this in advance. You will find grammar mistakes and stuff so I am sorry . Now let’s talk so I am a male 38 my wife is 45 we have been together 4 years in January. Now the first two years of our relationship was constant sex , she got pregnant we had a kid . After we still had a sex . Some time later we slowed down and eventually just stopped . I asked her why she did not want to become pregnant again . I completely understood that reason . We both have other kids from other partners so we decided I would get a vasectomy . So I got and before I did I told her after I expect we gonna be doing all time . Well I was “Green lit “ to have sex in May I can count on one hand the times we have had sex . I feel cheated, played , screwed , ripped off . So I have considered cheating . Yup that’s right I have actually had a few encounters buy I back off at the last minute. I kinda feel like I should just say fuck it and go through with it . I have talked with her and it’s always the same situation. We talk she gives me one of like 5 recycled reasons and we have sex like the next day then the cycle repeats. There is a small part of me that thinks she might be cheating . Idk I just don’t know
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