Me (18/F) have been very close to one of my first cousins (16/M). Last few years he’s been kind of using me as a “glimps into what girls think.” Six months ago he came over and started his usual questions that have become more sexual over the years. Especially after he found out I let my last BF take my virginity when I was 17 (big mistake, whole other story there.)
My cousin plays football at school and is a lot bigger than me even though I am older. Two weeks ago he confessed that he has thoughts about me that he really shouldn’t have. He wants to have sex with me and each time we see each other now he tries making a move. I’m afraid no one will take my side so I don’t say anything. Last night was the worst time so far. We were at their house watching a movie and he started, I got up to leave and he grabed me from behind and pulled me over against a wall and started trying to pull my pants off. Lucky he thought he heard some one and I ran out the house. Not sure what to do now I think everyone will call me a liar if I try to get help.
Please tell someone, even if you just tell them that you cant be around the cousin. He might be going through something, but taking what he’s doing is going to hurt you and him. I wish you the best
He is already abusing you sexually. Tell someone before it goes any farther.