I’m 16 and just started dating. She’s 15 and my first girlfriend. She’s had lots of boyfriends before me, but I’ve never had any girl so much as give me a second look. I get jealous when I hear stories of her past boyfriends, not because I think she’ll do anything with them, but just because I feel utterly clueless about relationships compared to her. There are times she acts like there are things I should know about dating and relationships that should be common knowledge, but when I have no dating experience, it’s hard for me to just pull this knowledge out of thin air. I try my best, but I feel stupid and clueless and inferior because of how little I know. I’m starting to think maybe I should start seeing other people, so or maybe break up with her and date a bunch of other people before trying to be with her. Maybe she’d prefer that over me being so clueless and incompetent due to my dating inexperience.
TALK to her! You both are very young. Look at porn together about dating. Is she on birth control. If not DO NOT GET HER PREGNANT! If you both read about cuckolds this will allow you to talk about your relationship. You are a cuckold naturally. This are the feeling of someone who knows there are better men than them.
What my BF/husband did was ask me to talk about my dates as he jerked off. This trained his mind to learn his place. This is his words not mine. When we got married he got me a book on Female Led Marriages. This applies to dating to. Both of you read this together. Your Girlfriend may like being in charge for once. We have been happly married for 7 years. My husband gets me ready for my dates. He loves to hear my adventures as he reclaims his wife.
I hope you realize that anything beyond “talk to her” in the previous comment is terrible advice. Dunno why anyone would assume your anythi g other than a little insecure. Share that with her, if she’s supportive and understanding great, if not you don’t want that anyway.
I was where you are now: 16 and clueless. It takes time to understand the social norms. 15-year old girls are also clueless. They don’t know what they want and turn their attention to any guy that flirts and spends $ on them. If you have a mentor you can trust, talk to him for advice. Be careful though. Some guys will pretend to be your friend while they’re stabbing you in the back. If I could go back in time and face my 16-year old self I would break it off and move on. Take this time to focus on yourself to learn a trade and skills that’ll help you pay the rent and buy toys. Find yourself a girl your age with a healthy family dynamic that shares the same goals you do. Stay away from women with kids. I’ve been there / done that in my early 20’s with a 30-year old woman with 2 kids from 2 baby-daddys. It ended after 5 years. I found that she had a $ million life insurance on me and was waiting for someday I’d crash my motorbike so she could collect. I dodged a major bullet. We had no kids together. I got away from her free of financial obligations and the experience that I would not repeat it. Stay safe and be smart. Until you get married and have a family, look out for number one. No one else will.