After we married my wife became increasingly jealous of me to the point I couldn’t even talk to another woman. She would make all kinds of accusations especially when she had a few. She blamed it on her ex who cheated but I never have. Every time she would go off on one of her jealous rants it would leave me cold inside eventually leading to me losing interest in sex so we stopped having it. Seems like every time I began to have those feelings again she would say something and it was like she had poured ice water down my throat.
Now I have come to believe it is not about jealousy, it is more of an excuse to be abusive. She will start out saying something sexually encouraging then slam me with a comment that she knows will hurt me.
Overly jealous people are usually cheaters. My ex used to accuse me of cheating and then when I caught her she told me she only cheated because I was which I wasn’t.