Three years ago I began having trouble getting and keeping an erection. I went to a doctor and after several tests he put me on medication that effectively ensured I wouldn’t be able to get an erection. Going off them would be suicide.
My wife was understanding and I did everything I could to keep her satisfied but eventually I realized it was unfair of me to ask for her monogamy. She promised she would never cheat on me even after I told her I would understand.
She lasted over a year but one day I came home and her whole attitude had changed. I could just tell she must have had sex but she didn’t say anything and I didn’t ask. For a long time we didn’t talk about it and that was stressful. I just broke down one day and told her I knew she was having sex with someone and she needed to be honest about it.
She broke down and cried but admitted she had been seeing someone but it was for sex only. She refused to tell me who it was at first but then then told me it was this guy she works with, a guy I had met several times and actually really liked.
Eventually she told him I knew about the affair and now we no longer keep secrets. She stopped seeing him as he found someone else but she has had two other lovers. My wife is attractive so she has no problem finding men who are very content with woman who is only looking for lovers.
Recently the doctors have told me there is something we can do about my condition, that it may be possible for me to once again have an erection. If that happens will my wife be OK with just me or since she has had other loves will she want to continue with that?
At age 50 my wife was 45 this happened to me. I encouraged her to find a lover. She told me she liked a guy at her work. I told her to tell him about me and I want you to find a lover. We were open about it. He called me and I told him my would has never slept with anyone else and to treat her right and teach her about sex. He could train her to be his sex toy. Tell her she has to tell me everything thig. He was a nice guy and the fucked like rabbits, It is exciting and I do not want to get my dick fixed because I like her having a lover.