Hello, I am Female, and a minor. I am “openly” bisexual, as in, I’ve told my mom and if someone asks I say it. The thing is, I know about intimate things, such as kissing, sex, all that.. But it has never really interested me, with myself, sure it feels okay, but I have never felt the need for someone else. I don’t imagine other people nor do I really think of anyone in that light. I might be Asexual, and personally that’s fine with me. But I have never really loved someone? I am still a minor so one could argue “you still have time” or “you’re too young”.. I don’t personally know. I say I am bisexual because I think of everyone in the same light. Sure, girls and boys are hot, pretty, cute, handsome, whatever I think they are.. But, I have never thought of someone as in dating them? Sure I’ve had crushes, but that was when I was in like.. Third grade or younger, and I’m not sure if I actually liked them or just thought I did because.. That’s what people do, ig. I suppose I’m just here to confess this, I don’t know if people can talk back to me or just read it and be like “mm.. Yep, same” or something.. But it just feels better to say and to confess even if it is not to family, to summarize, I am pretty sure I am Asexual and maybe acromantic and I just don’t know it yet.
When I was a kid, I kissed anybody who would kiss me! Guys, girls… whatever. I loved that feeling.
Still do.
I’m a guy and older but… I remember how it felt way back then.
I tink u should give it time, and im not saying this because im and old lady who thinks all the asexual and aromantic stuff is crap. Im saying this because i have been there and while being a minor i did loved some boy and a girl who broke my heart, i did not think of them sexually at all. Or any body for that matter. I was a 19 y/old virgin who was not interested in that till i knew my now bf. So i say relax. If u are aromantic and/or asexual. Thats fine as long as u make peace with it and know who you are and what u want. Dont give in to the pressue let urself be and discover them/her as u grow up.
I think a lot of young people get confused about this but its normal. I am an adult male now but when I was pre teen I was the victim of abuse sadly by an older male. Nobody ever knew at the time but I was confused about my sexuality. The best thing I ever did and to cut a long story short was to begin a relationship with my 51 yo foster mom when I was 15. I was a very shy boy but she encouraged me lets say, yes she was an attractive Lady so when I was 15 we began sleeping together. I found it awesome getting into bed naked with a woman but she gave me confidence. We slept together for eight years and enjoyed satisfying each other. I then knew that I preferred female company. If you are even just a teen and the opportunity presents itself just get into bed with an adult male who has experience.