There is a lady in my building who is trans. We chat sometimes when we cross paths, coming and going. Today I saw her collecting her mail as I was heading out and it hit me that I have a massive crush on her. I don’t know what to do. We’re both middle aged and the idea of asking her out is daunting enough but the fact that she is trans… I mean it doesn’t bother me but what will others think?
Who cares what others think? If you left everything in your life to what others think you’d be pretty sad, because there are ALWAYS going to be people who look down on people or don’t like you. That’s life. Why not chance being happy instead of caring what others think of you? Cuz the fact is, 99.9% of the time, others ARE NOT thinking about you AT AALL.
It’s not a girl , it’s a man! Are you you out of your fucking mind?! Now get on a dating app and find or fuck a girl.
Dude, why be toxic on a confession site? That is a new kind of low, man.
You should talk to her more and befriend her before asking her out to make it feel a little less daunting, don’t live life with regrets!
There are no “trans” people, only some confused individuals wearing a costume trying to convince you, everyone else, and themselves that they are something they are not. Unless you’re gay, you should seek elsewhere cause that one doesn’t have the equipment you like to play with.
No one’s asking you to date her, let them be, they’re not doing anything to bother you