My wife has had a lover for two years. It was a total fluke that I found out, I usually don’t go out for lunch but one day I forgot to bring something so I went out to get something. Just as I was pulling out of the burger shop I saw her car drive by. I was four cars behind her and tried to call but she didn’t answer. Then I noticed her pulling into a subdivision so I followed.
I recognized the driveway she pulled into. I knew who lived there, it was a guy she works with. We went there for a party once when he was married. She told me he got divorced because she cheated. I just parked a few houses down. I guess I was hoping she would maybe just be dropping something off but she went to the door and he let her in. I waited for an hour then they came out and he walked her to her car. They kissed hard before she got in and drove off.
I guess most men would have stormed up and confronted them but I just sat there confused. I wasn’t angry or hurt or even surprised. Instead I was aroused and it shocked me. I never thought that knowing my wife was having sex with another man would turn me on but here I was, sitting in the car with an erection sweating and trembling.
I called my office and told them I had gotten sick and would not be coming back to work today. I drove home and had a couple of stiff drinks trying to sort out my feelings. It was all I could do not to masturbate. I took a shower and after another drink, or two, I passed out.
I woke up shortly before she would be coming home from work. I had fallen asleep naked and had dreams of her with him. In the dream I was just watching them have sex, sitting next to the bed masturbating. I looked down and I had came in my sleep, dried cum covered my stomach. It was then that the shame hit me. I thought what the fuck was wrong with me?
Another quick shower just before she came in. As soon as I saw here I became aroused again. I was only wearing underwear and my erection was very obvious. She looked down and smiled and said did you miss me? We had not had spontaneous sex in a long time and I wanted her right then and there. She wanted to “go clean up” which I knew was she wanted to clean up after having sex with him. I insisted I couldn’t wait and pulled her to the couch. She didn’t object, in fact she acted like she wanted it right then and there. I pulled her clothes off and instead of just going right to fucking I buried my face between her legs and licked the pussy he had just fucked that afternoon. She did try and stop me I suppose so I wouldn’t taste dick and his cum but I was too quick. That said she instantly got into it and I gave her an orgasm, a big one.
We fucked then and again before bed and once again that next morning. She never asked what got into me and I never asked why all of a sudden she had become more sexual. I now track her phone and I know when they hook up. Always afterward we have fantastic sex for days. Now I am considering telling her I know, I want her to fuck him and I want to watch but I am afraid it will ruin things.
What will she think of me, a husband that enjoys knowing his wife is fucking another man?
Don’t feel alone a lot of men are like this including me. We started off swinging but I soon realized the turn on for me was to watch her with other men so now we only do threesomes with guys.
Tell her but I suspect she already knows you know. Get it out in the open and accept it. It seems it is a turn on for the both of you but also consider what that other guy is feeling. Find out what she has been telling him. Does he think she will leave you for him or is she planning on it? If he is just a fuck and know it great. My wife had two lovers and they both know the score. She had to drop one guy as he was falling in love with her and wanted her to himself. She is just the type of woman who needs more than one lover but only needs one man to truly be in love with. Most women and men can’t separate sex from love.