(I figured I would mention that I won’t use actual names and won’t use ages for privacy.) It was about year ago when I started dating this guy, G. G (I thought) he was a very nice guy, he seemed kind, sweet, and loyal. I found him cute, so I asked him out he said yes and then we began dating. It was VERY short. I noticed small red flags and gut feelings that gave me the ick. When I cut off the relationship with him, I said something along the lines of, “We need to break up because I need to focus on myself and I’m also just not ready for dating yet.” At the time I was very non-confrontational at the time, so I just said that. Fast forward to a year later and I started dating another guy (C) who I truly do love. C is kind, caring, genuine and makes me very comfortable. Anyway, G got wind of our relationship and came up to me. “So, you’re ready for him (C) but not ready for me?” He said. “I don’t want to make this some big deal so I’m telling you now, I didn’t and don’t like you, I love C and would like to continue dating him without issue.” I replied then walked away because I was busy. We managed to go a few months no issues and then G came out as bi. He told me he was bi pretty out of the blue, but I was 100% okay with that and we kept talking. I asked him at one point if he liked anyone just out of curiosity and he said, “Raymond, Illa, and C” (none are real names.) I was pretty concerned but ignored it. One day C walked into the room and G came over and told me, “I think C looks super-hot today in that out-fit.” I was so uncomfortable I just left and told C who agreed to avoid him. Over months of C and I dating the same stuff kept happening with G the comments including, “I love C” and “If I asked C out would he dump you for me?” Take note he was well aware we were still dating. Eventually he’s begun to touch C on the shoulder, foot, and trying to hold his hand. C and I have repeatedly told him to stop. He won’t. Neither of us (C or myself) have talked to or been around G, but he won’t stop Idk how to stop him or what to do. Please give me some advice.
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